Love in the 21st century....

Be it unfair of me to

criticize

the 'polite

gentlemen'

one might find nowadays,

I feel the need to scream out,

where the heck are all

the gentlemen?!?!

In my 18 years of living

I can't say I've found a

whole lot of em.

Hell,

I can barely say I've found

any

but I'll give credit where it's due;

I have met some guys who

were extremely polite and understood

how to treat women the right way.

I've noticed lately that men or

guys

rarely actually do much to get a

woman or girl.

When a man was interested in

a woman in the 1800s,

he went to her home,

visited her family,

needed to be approved of

by the father or eldest brother

and had to prove he was worthy

of the woman.

Now when a guy wants to

show interest in a girl,

he adds her on facebook,

he writes on her wall,

he likes her photos

and he leaves random comments

on things.

-.-

What happened to courtship?

When a woman's honor and

hand in marriage were

so precious,

men were killed when

violating them.

Hell, back then,

you were shot dead just from

kissing a woman you had no

interest in eventually marrying.

Although things are much

more relaxed and liberal now,

I can't help wishing that

every now and then,

a guy from around here would show

such care and precision in

a woman's feelings and

her rights.

Yes yes, it's true that women

can do almost anything men can,

but sometimes we just

want to be treated like women.

Every now and then,

we want to be swept off our feet

because heels ain't comfortable honey!

;)

Live, laugh, love!